To Be or Not To Be FriendsPosted by Kara Mathews on Thursday, January 1, 2009
Hi. My name is Kara, and that is the only name I will mention in this post because I don't want anyone's feelings to be hurt. I have an ex-friend (who will be known in this post as my x-Friend) who has been doing some mean things to me, and I have to admit that I have done some mean things to my x-Friend as well, and my x-Friend has really hurt my feelings a lot. I don't want to get too detailed because I don't want anyone out there to know exactly who my x-Friend is. I just would like to say that my x-Friend was kind of rude and annoying for a while before we stopped being friends, and so myself and a few other friends (known as Ack and Hin) sort of stopped liking my x-Friend, we were going to tell my x-Friend together that we didn't like my x-Friend anymore, but my x-Friend made me really angry one day and I kind of let her/him have it right then and there. I told him/her that nobody likes him/her, I didn't REALLY mean NOBODY, I just meant myself, Ack and Hin. My x-Friend has been using that to turn my real friends against me (except a few like Ack and Hin); and she even put an entire paragraph about me, bad things about me on her website. Everyone world-wide has the access to see things like "Everything Kara wears looks like it came out of a dumpster." and "I'm not trying to be mean, but..." etc. It really hurt my feelings, and I know what I said hurt my x-Friend's feelings, too, but I told her what I meant, and if she didn't hear me, or she just didn't get the message, I will send her an email telling her to view this blog, so she will know what I actually meant. If you're reading this (and you know who you are) I'm sorry, and I hope you're sorry, too. Because you should be. What you did hurt SO MUCH I can't even explain it. It hurt more than when my brother spained my ankle, especially because most of the things you said weren't true at all.
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